Ideal India

In one of the articles that I have read, the author cited five reasons why boy bestfriends are the greatest. I'd like to dissect each one, putting in them my own thoughts..my own perspective.

1. They make you laugh. So true. And this I know based on my experience since my bestfriend happens to be a boy. He is the funniest person I know, always ready to make silly remarks that will bring tears to my eyes because of mirth. His childlike mischief and sense of humor takes all the blues away. We can talk for hours and still have a good laugh.

2. They are the sweetest when you cry. I know of no man who can withstand a woman's tears. As my bestfriend succinctly puts it, anger he can take but tears makes him feel like a fool and a scum. It's such a sight to see him unsure and loss his aura of confidence whenever he is confronted with tears.He will slay dragons for you if only to make you feel better.

3.They beg when you are mad at them. Ah, I think it's but natural for them to do so. After all, as bestfriends, you practically know everything about him. Besides, aside from his family, who would put up with his worst moods? Who would do his schoolwork, pass on that stenchy love letter to his crush, hear his endless tirade about how unfair and lousy girls can be just because the girl of his dreams broke his heart? No one but his bestfriend would do that for him.

4. They protect you. Oh yeah! Funny thing about is he can be overly-protective, much more than a father even. A knee-length skirt is too short, he has to know your whereabouts and who you're with, and he checks on every guy who takes notice. And let's not forget how chivalrous he becomes when someone else hurts you. He can tease you no end until you get mad, then, he'll just laugh over it, but when someone else makes you angry, he'll defend you as if it's his own personal battle.

5. They can fall in love with you. Now, here's comes the hard part. More often than not, it is the girl who falls first. Why not? After all, with the attention and the time he spends on us, it's more likely that we tend to get ideas. Good if both of tyou feels the same way, but what if it's a one-side love? I mean he loves you, no doubt about it. You are friends and friends love each other.But what if it's just a platonic kind of love? Can you live through it?

Let's reverse the scenario, what if he falls for you and you didn't? How can you tell without hurting him that you just want to be friends, nothing more? It would be pretty awkward, indeed.

Say you become a couple. What if it doesn't work out between you? Are you ready to lose not only your man but your bestfriend altogether?

Now, is a boy bestfriend still the greatest? Definitely. The fifth reason may or may not happen but at the end of the day, what is important is you meet a person who make you whole and who accepts you for being you, without judgment, without questions,who feels happy when your dreams come true.The essence of friendship is not the smile and gestures that we give but a feeling when you discover that someone believed in you and is willing to trust you.

Women find men in uniform virtually irresistible. Why is that? Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why? What is it about a sharp-dressed man that makes a grown woman weak in the knees? Why does an otherwise articulate woman suddenly feel she has a mouth full of marbles and can only seem to utter a schoolgirl giggle.

There are a number of reasons that men in uniform are sexy. I'm going to go over the top reasons.

• Men in uniform appear responsible. Someone wearing a uniform has a responsibility to their position, to their country, or their team. Women like knowing a man is responsible. She assumes that responsibility may spill over into other areas.
• Men in uniform appear to be committed. Commitment is something men often shy away from, but a man in uniform at least shows he can commit to something. That's always a good start, right ladies? He's committed to his profession. He's committed to his sport. He's committed to his country. He's committed to his buddies. Will be as committed to you?
• Men in uniform appear clean and tidy. Let's face it, men can be slouchy and untidy. A man in uniform is crisp and clean, at least initially. A little bit of hard-earned dirt and grime can be pretty sexy too. But who keeps him starched, clean and tidy? Will it be you?
• Men in uniform wear fitted clothing in good condition. Uniforms are rarely, if ever, in the wrong size or in need of repair. They would have to work really hard at looking slouchy in fitted clothing.
• Men in uniform exude confidence. Men in uniform tend to stand taller and speak clearer. Women love a confident man. Men know it too, ladies.
• Men in uniform represent authority. Men in uniform tend to command respect just by the authority they seem to represent. They then act accordingly. It is extremely rare for a man in uniform to act out of character. He knows he's being watched.

As a guy,one is always confused about how to attract women and at the same time you sometimes feel that you can't just understand them at all.You feel attracted to them all the more,but still seem to be kind of irritated by the fact to how complicated they might seem in their lives,how easily they get hurt by things/.Well,thats what makes a girl different after all.

As a dude,i initially used to think seeing all the other guys in a relationship that how difficult it can to keep up in a relationship.I actually never knew about how different girls maybe in their thinking from us.To me they were just physically different and by God's will,they were someone whom we guys had to fall for,no matter how much we would try to control ourselves.I did realize later that it wasn't like that after all.

Someone told me once that when god made us,he wired the ladies to be very subtle and emotional and to us,he just hard wired us in a really haphazard fashion.For example, a girl may fall over and over again for a guy who triggers her emotionally in spite of the fact that the guy may have cheated on her in the past or probably would have physically abused her.she just wouldn't care.That is why sometimes couple of descent people die trying to convince a girl in a relationship but a jerk might just materialize out of nowhere and take her away because he probably seemed more amusing and friendly to the girl.

Also,sometimes these honest attempts made by a nice guy may demoralize him badly up on failure and he may be take up the wrong path and try to end up a jerk himself.Sometimes people just might lose their identity completely and end up nowhere.So it is necessary for people to realize that who don't exactly have to be a bad guy to be more appealing to the women but have to just trigger those emotional switches in a woman.So,guys ,boot up and dude up.Be a charmer,and by the display of your chivalry get the woman you want.

Ever been in love with your classmate.Its an exciting and all together a risky business.All you end up doing in the class i to keep looking at the person.It gets worst when teachers start noticing your sudden non-responsive,non-mischievous behavior,wondering what the hell had gone wrong with you as they no more see pieces of chalks and paper planes being hurled their way from your side of the class.Your best friends aren't able to accept the sudden alienation and seclusion and are in a state of depression of losing out on your company.As for the other people who had a crush on you,well i don't think i even need to mention that much.It's no less that a suicidal tendency developing or a plan being hatched to beat up your love or atleast some sort of plan to trouble the person.

Concentration in the class obviously drops to a negative figure.Worst is the part when on some of the days you love doesn't turn up to school.The entire place seems to feel like Alcatraz.You just don't feel like being there.Your friends are like,'dude,what the hell are you gonna do,she didn't turn up'.They start making things even worse by actually making you feel that that only reason you should have turned up for school is to have been able to meet her.When she's not there,you have no right to be there.

The most amazing thing is that no matter how fair and just you might have always been while appearing for the examinations,not cheating as well as not letting others cheat,you some how are compelled to help your love in the paper.If you are a guy,and you see those cute little shiny eyes talking to you in the middle of the paper,asking you answer to some damn question,you feel like just getting up and handing up your entire answer sheet to her....yeah but that isn't a possibility.But you still try hard.

This is the beauty of being young and being in school.

When i was about to enter 11standard,i just can't recall to how many people might have posed this question to what exactly i had aimed at doing in life .I was confused and i don't blame the people,coz guys,WE ARE INDIANS,we take joy in other people's happiness,but our happiness knows no bounds in other people's sorrow.Same goes for the advising thing.People are like some time bomb, or like a land mine,just waiting for the slightest of hints to start thrusting their advices on others.Just trying to fake so much concern for other peoples' lives but also not forgetting to brag about their own achievement or some relatives who happens to be in the same field as you might have been wanting to pursue,or some person about the same age as ours ,who is described to be a very focused and in a way is portrayed to be well above us in all the things.

Well,after all the ill advisory,maybe i was mentally unstable at that point of time in life,i just took SCIENCE....yeah..SCIENCE..i just somehow had the feeling that i might be able to pull it away the same way as i had done in 10.But obviously,i was wrong.I was doomed,things went above my head.I just couldn't understand stuff.Already i was confused,now i got more confused.As a typical student,instead of rectifying my faults,i took out faults in the teaching method of the teacher,i even changed schools in hope of getting something better.But you see,things remained the same.I discussed it with my peers.Nobody seemed to have the exact solution but everyone surely had an alternative to this confused state of mind.....it was -STOP THINKING..relax.Let 11 the way it has been going.Initially,it didn't seem a bad idea as such,but you see,if you are a student, you are gonna end being a part of an institution called school with bunch of people called teachers who might prove to be quite lethal on days like the PTM(parents' teachers' meet).That chilled out attitude that we might have been sporting throughout the year suddenly disappears amidst the chilly tense air of the classroom with your parents sitting in front of you teacher who doesn't leave a single opportunity to describe you in the best way she/he can.
I so love my teachers.


Its rightly said:-
PEHLE HAMNE SCIENCE LE,
PHIR SCIENCE NE HAMARI LEE.

Well here i would want to discuss certain general aspects of life,how a teenage life maybe ,how pathetic school might seem at a point of time and how we sometimes may take an awful amount of time to cope up with certain issues in life.
Well,THAT WAS FORMAL....duh!!!...k...lets get things nice and clear.If you are a delhite,and especially school going students,you might have come across this franchise,called the DPS Society.Well,i think you guessed it right......THE MMS SCANDAL SCHOOL....DPS R K PURAM....part of this very franchise...ppl here in delhi kind of take pride in being associated with this school as if it was the IIT amongst school.It is some institution that people crave to get into.Well,if you are one of them ,i so very feel sorry for you,as a matter of fact i feel sorry for myself as well.You see,i also for reasons unknown to me including,had this craze to be a part of this school or the franchise.I somehow was disillusioned by a couple of people that these schools are the best in academics.But you see,when i went on to be a part of one such school,DPS Vasant Kunj,i kind of realised that i had just made one of the biggest mistakes in my life. These schools are like big factories than schools.According to me, schools are places of knowledge and experience,and this place was full of the wrong experiences.The people are pretty cool out there though.Its a matter of only a few more years that you might have reports of cases such as kids making out in the washroom caught or something like,teacher catches kids having sex in the class.Now,you might think that how have i arrived to such a conclusion ,and also say that these things might not be the only ones,so why target DPS.

The thing is,the very idea of living off on a false reputation that you don't deserve is something that infuriates me,because according to me ,such schools have no right to just take in the 90%s if they can't live up to the expectations.Its like being married to a lesbian,though she might seems beautiful to all you friends and family,people might call you a very lucky guy,but only you know that you can't have sex with her,because ultimately,she has no feelings for you.She is into girls and not boys.That creates a very alienating and uncomfortable environment.Same goes for the school,being dumped in the middle of a bunch baboons isn't just the best of experiences one might like to have.