As a guy,one is always confused about how to attract women and at the same time you sometimes feel that you can't just understand them at all.You feel attracted to them all the more,but still seem to be kind of irritated by the fact to how complicated they might seem in their lives,how easily they get hurt by things/.Well,thats what makes a girl different after all.

As a dude,i initially used to think seeing all the other guys in a relationship that how difficult it can to keep up in a relationship.I actually never knew about how different girls maybe in their thinking from us.To me they were just physically different and by God's will,they were someone whom we guys had to fall for,no matter how much we would try to control ourselves.I did realize later that it wasn't like that after all.

Someone told me once that when god made us,he wired the ladies to be very subtle and emotional and to us,he just hard wired us in a really haphazard fashion.For example, a girl may fall over and over again for a guy who triggers her emotionally in spite of the fact that the guy may have cheated on her in the past or probably would have physically abused her.she just wouldn't care.That is why sometimes couple of descent people die trying to convince a girl in a relationship but a jerk might just materialize out of nowhere and take her away because he probably seemed more amusing and friendly to the girl.

Also,sometimes these honest attempts made by a nice guy may demoralize him badly up on failure and he may be take up the wrong path and try to end up a jerk himself.Sometimes people just might lose their identity completely and end up nowhere.So it is necessary for people to realize that who don't exactly have to be a bad guy to be more appealing to the women but have to just trigger those emotional switches in a woman.So,guys ,boot up and dude up.Be a charmer,and by the display of your chivalry get the woman you want.